How to make a hard decision

1. 01Write the question in one sentenceIf it takes a paragraph, you're holding three decisions at once. Separate them and pick the one that unlocks the others.
2. 02Name the values in conflictHard decisions are values fights — security versus freedom, loyalty versus growth. State both sides with respect.
3. 03Ask the ten-year selfWhich version will you narrate with pride, and which with a quiet 'I never tried'? Regret is a better guide than optimism.
4. 04Find the reversible testA sabbatical before a resignation, a month apart before an ending. Buy information cheaply before spending everything.
5. 05Set a decision dateDeliberation past a certain point is just anxiety in a suit. Choose a date, decide, and stop relitigating.

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