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How to apologise properly

“'I'm sorry you feel that way' is not an apology; it is a complaint about someone's feelings.”

A real apology names the specific harm, drops the excuses, doesn't demand instant forgiveness, and is followed by changed behaviour.

A good apology repairs in minutes what defensiveness can damage for years.

The playbook

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The mistakes — what people get wrong

Over-apologising for existing, which drains the currency for when it matters.
Apologising by gift instead of by words.

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